Asking a woman out can be very intimidating. In this article, you are going to find out how to ask women out on a date in a totally different way. You are going to look great so as to maximize your chances with them and make them say yes even before you ask them.

Women pay a great deal of attention to your personality and character.

However, this doesn't mean that they will neglect other essential parts such as your appearance and behaviors.

They are essential to a woman's evaluation of you.

It's highly important for you to look the best you can in order for you to maximize your chances of her accepting to go on a date with you.

What would you choose?

A rotten apple or a great looking one?

Of course the great looking.

This is the same with women, they will prefer a man who has average looks but dress and has a great appearance than a great looking guy but has a filthy appearance.

1. The first thing you should focus on is your body odors.

This is such a neglected part when men are grooming themselves. Isn't taking a shower and using the usual deodorant enough? The simple answer is no, it's not enough. Why?

Because women have a highly developed sense of smell and they are going to scan you from head to toes when you walk or stand next to them.

They will pay close attention to the way you smell!

This is why you need to smell great all the time. Women have confessed to me that they will find a guy charming and handsome just by the fragrance he is using. You should stop from using deodorants and shifts to colognes. They are much more mature and attractive to women.

2. The second thing you need to pay attention to is your details

By details, I mean anything that's appearing to women. It can be your hair, nails, eye brows, shoes, socks.... Women will examine you accurately and if they find the smallest defect, they will punish you heavily.

What disgust women?

Here is the least from the least disgusting the most disgusting:

1 bad hair cut
2 spots on your shirt or clothes
3 hair hanging from your nose or/and ears
4 dirty finger nails
5 ugly or dirty shoes

Shoes are so important; never leave your home without polishing them and taking good care of them.

3. The third thing you should look after to look great is your insecurities.

Some men are blessed with gorgeous bodies, magnificent hair...Others on the other hands weren't so lucky; they got baldness, big bellies...These are for most guys insecurities that they will try to hide at any cost.

They will wear fake hair, do some surgery...This is fine, however when dealing with women, hiding them becomes a danger to your success.

She will see it as a sign of weakness and self-doubt. Don't be ashamed of your body, instead, show it and she will perceive you as a confident guy.

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Professional matchmaking services are a wealth of information about how people can best maximize their dates where to have them to get the best romance out of the date possible. Matchmaking services are also a wealth of information on advice that couples can follow to enhance their relationships with one another and how to make love work. Some of the best first date venue advice comes from renowned professional matchmaking sites that make it their business to make relationships thrive and flourish.

A great fist date venue is always the movies. Pick a movie that you know you will both enjoy, so you will have to do a little research on your own to find out what kind of movies she likes to watch. You might want to choose a horror flick so that she can have you clinging to you throughout the whole movie. However, if you know she can?t stand horror movies, then don?t pick it; otherwise she may end up not watching at all! The movies are the best place to share food, drinks, and snacks. It is also a perfect place where you can try to hold her hand for the first time.

Another popular first date venue is a walk in the park. Pick a day where it is not too crowded and pick a spot where you can go back to so that you can share a picnic lunch. The best part about taking a stroll in the park with a significant other is that you will be able to watch other people going about their business which makes for great topics of conversation. Aside from talking about the weather, prepare a picnic lunch that will surely have her impressed which should include a light wine, cheese, fruits, and some pastries.

First dates should be simple, but romantic. Take your date to a concert in the park. Make sure it is music that you will both enjoy. Again, prepare a picnic dinner complete with wine and some delicious snacks. You can even spend the rest of the evening lying on your picnic blanket identifying constellations together while talking about life.

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How to ask a woman out on a date can be very frightening to most guys, especially if they have been rejected before. These are the most lethal mistakes you have made or you will be making for her to say no. avoid them at any cost.

These mistakes are horrible and women will be merciless when you do them. There is nothing more revealing to women about your personality and character than making one or all of these mistakes.

The first mistake is asking her the wrong way.

There is a right way to ask a woman out and unfortunately, there are also thousands of incorrect ways to ask a woman out. The most abnormal way of asking a woman out is:

Approaching her and asking her something like this:

"Excuse me, are you free Saturday evening?"

Yes, this is the most terrible way to ask her out. By asking her this question, she will think that you don't want to take risks with her; you are making sure she is free first and the most terrible thing is that no woman on this earth would answer you with:

"Yes (no one wants to date me), I'm free on Saturday"

This will never happen. She wouldn't want to appear as having no life. Instead, you should ask her this way:

"Excuse me; I would like to take you out Saturday evening if you aren't busy of course."

This is a direct efficient way. She will try to give your reasons that she has something to do, it's normal, just tell her to cancel it and to come with you because you are more fun.

The second mistake is trying to convince her or finding the reason why she refused

Many women will say to your date proposition: NO

They are either busy, don't find you attractive, or are playing hard to get. This is fine. What's not so fine is you standing next to her and trying to convince her to go out with you.

"You won't regret it; I'll take you to a good restaurant"

"Just give me a chance"

....

Or they will try to know why she refused:

"It's because I'm fat, right?"

"Why?"

"Please, I want to know why you don't want..."

Believe me; by doing this, you've killed all your chances with her. The right way would be to tease her when she tells you no. "I understand, you find me too attractive, it's normal"

"It's fine, I'm such a great guy and people will keep admiring me and ignoring you when we will be walking together." Teasing her is the best thing you can do. Then you can ask her again, but using daring humor.

"OK, I'm going to give you another chance, it's your lucky day and I'm such a generous guy, I don't want you to miss all the fun and pleasure that I'll bring you when you'll go out with me"

Trust me; few women will refuse at this stage. You have to keep your word and let your date be fun and amusing to her.

The third mistake is asking her to lead

You've convinced her to go out with you.

Your next move would be: Asking her to choose a place and time. She will think of you as the most immature and needy guy on earth.

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This question has been asked since the dawn of the Neanderthals with no agreeable conclusion. But like our ancient ancestors, I believe that I have discovered the fire that you need to be the hottest, most desirable creature on the planet. And unlike history, it will not take years of evolution to get you to this level. Simply follow my five favorite fire hot moves and you will be elevated to Greek Goddess status over night.

1. Confidence Is Queen: Every single man alive will walk through a desert, with no water, no food, and no rescue in sight for a woman who is confident. Men are powerful creatures who demand an equal partner in the journey of life and in order to be truly happy they need a strong confident woman by their side. If you want men to be all over you like they would a tool sale at Sears, then you need to live with confidence in everything that you do. Believe in yourself, who you are, what you do, how you carry yourself; all of this must be done with absolute confidence. And if you are lacking this key element, you must figure out why, get over it, and bring on the new you.

2. Have Purpose In Life: Ladies it's essential that you have a purpose in life beyond that of just living. What I mean is, you have to have a game plan for your future, a goal, something that you want to become or accomplish. Men flock to women with purpose like a stray goose to a gaggle. One cannot just want a man to come into their life, scoop them up, put them into a fairytale castle and take care of them forever. Men hate this. They want a woman who can stand on her own two feet, who has determination to succeed and who has a plan to have a bright and rich future with or with out a man on her arm. Life is great when you have that perfect partner, but never go through life thinking that is the only way life can be great. You must be able to prevail on your own with a solid plan and that will draw men to you like moths to a flame.

3. Let Your Inner Glow, Flow: True beauty comes from within and although men are visual creatures, men are also drawn to the inner glow of a real woman. They might not be able to see it visually, but if you posses a true sense of who you are and are not afraid to let it show, even the blindest of men will be able to see this. What ever beauty you hold inside your heart, you must be able to share that with those around you in a way that makes people feel better about themselves, just by being in your presence. So many people now a days have something to hide or scars that cut so deep they are not able to showcase their true being. If you can over come this and be true to who you are, show case it, live and love it, men will be tripping over themselves just to be in your presence. A woman who can make a man the best man he can be just by being who she is a rare and amazing creature and is a woman who will have endless opportunities for love.

4. Sexuality is Sexy: It is not the 1900's so don't act like it is! We live in a society where being sexy is extremely acceptable. In fact, it is preferred. Women by nature are gorgeous, delightful, heavenly works of art and you would never think of hiding a work of art under drab clothes, would you? So why not highlight the sensual creature you are by letting men see the sexy side you posses. Free yourself from being reserved and let your inner sexual goddess show through. Start with how you dress, never be afraid to let the world see the beauty of your curves. Dressing sexy is all about feeling powerful in what you put on your body, if it makes you feel great then you will have sensual scents oozing from your inner being that every man in the room will notice. And once men pick up on this, it is time for phase two, the art of the sensual touch. Being sexy is not just about how you look, it also about how you touch. A shake of the hand can tell a man a lot about the kind of woman you are and if your touch is openly confident and sexy it will make a man buckle at the knees. Let your essence of woman hood flow out your finger tips into the palms of his hands, let him feel the sexy goddess that is the core of who you are, deliver your touch with intent and unwavering ability to let this man know you are proud to be a woman who is beautiful and sensual. Men will fall to pieces like a cheap piece of furniture if you deliver the sexiness you have buried inside your body.

5. Laughter Lights Him Up: By nature everyone loves to laugh. Therefore, it stands to reason that if you are a woman who can enjoy the gift of laughter you will bring out the happiness in any man who passes by your porch. The ability to let go of the moment and release the joy of laughter is so elevating and so powerful it can make even the most drab of moods uplifted. Everyone seeks to be happy in life and if you are the kind of woman who can draw out the laughter and good times in a person, in essence you are making their life happy and they will defiantly be coming back for more. Why do you think a good comedian always has sold out shows? It's because it feels good to laugh and it makes the soul happy. Never forget that laughter is the best medicine, and I truly believe this. A couple that can laugh together, stays together.

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You are probably sold to the fact that you need a matchmaker, but are wondering where a professional matchmaker can be found. Luckily, with the development of technology and communications, you may not even have to leave your own house to have access to the matchmaker of your choice. They will advertise themselves in different ways, which makes it easier for clients like you to find the right one to hire.

One way by which they advertise their services is through magazines and newspapers. Although this may be an expensive form of advertising, you may find the more successful matchmakers may be in these pages because their good business has allowed them to afford such an expensive medium. They often have classified advertisements where they will provide contact numbers and maybe even a short list of their specialties and services that they have in store for clients. Another way is through websites. This is becoming a far more popular medium than anything else because websites are easier to set up and are cheaper to maintain as well. A website for a professional matchmaker should be complete to make it a legitimate one. Make sure there are contact numbers where you can reach the matchmaker anytime, and not just email addresses and chats. A customer service number should be available as well, just in case you come across any problems. Make sure you read through terms and conditions before taking on services that you will be sure will help you in your relationship.

Word-of-mouth is yet another way by which you can find the perfect professional matchmaker for your relationship needs. Learn from family and friends if they have used matchmakers in the past. You may be able to get a good referral for a matchmaker who is professional and has a high success rate on top of that. If your friends and family were good customers, then you may even get a discount that you need as well! This method of finding a matchmaker is incredibly useful because you will be able to find someone whom most of your friends and family trust to help you in your particular situation.

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There is a good professional matchmaker out there for anyone who is looking, all one has to do is to be able to spot the best one that will help them find the partner of their dreams. Matchmakers who are serious about their work and in making their customers happy usually make them and their businesses stand out from the rest. The following are just a few characteristics you should look for in a matchmaker that is professional and who will bring your love life the success it needs.

First and foremost, it is important for you to find out about the credentials of the matchmaker. If you are working with an individual operating on freelance basis, you may want to ask him or her directly about the experience they have had in matchmaking. Ask for references of clients that have found success in their love lives using this particular matchmaker. This way, you can get a complete testimonial from a client who can honestly tell you what it was like to work with the professional matchmaker.

Find out how the matchmaker advertises him or herself. This may take on the form of a website or even just a calling card. The most important thing is that you are able to find out the contact numbers that will allow you to reach him or her whenever you need them. If they are always accessible to their clients, you will find that they are much better matchmakers to work with. Matchmakers that keep lines of communications open between themselves and their clients can always be trusted to be trying to help their customers as much as they can. Last, find out from family and friends if this particular professional matchmaker is the kind of person you should be working with. By finding out from sources that you know are reliable, you will be able to make a better decision as to whether to hire the matchmaker for your relationship needs. Remember, it is your love life on the line, so it is best that you make sure that your research is complete so that you can make a well-informed decision in the end.

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These seduction techniques are truly amazing. Women will be unable to resist you and will feel completely seduced and attracted if you use these fun ideas.

What's attractive to a woman?

Money, cars, jewelry, looks...?

No.

Women love most of all humor and fun in a man.

You can be the richest, most handsome person on earth, yet if you are boring, a woman will do either one of these two things:

She will dump you for another fun guy

Or

Cheat with another fun guy

Women can't live without having fun in their lives.

This is by the way the first trait women are looking for in men.

Make it your priority to develop it and making yourself fun to women.

Use these three fun ideas to seduce women and make them go nuts for you.

• Idea number one is take her to a strange place

Where do most guys take women these days?

Restaurants, clubs, movie, park...

These places are great, if you are married, but when dating, women will expect you to take them to these places, because after all most guys do it and will hate you when you do it.

You have to be totally unpredictable with women, especially when choosing a place to take them.

The greatest places to take women to are:

The zoo.

Most guys don't even think about it, however, it's a fantastic place full of conversation opportunities and fun ideas.

An ethnic restaurant.

It's an Amazing place to take a woman to, choose for her a great dish and let her experience new tastes with you.

An antique shop.

One of my most favorite places. there are so many fun ideas and conversation openers.

• Idea number two is act like a medieval knight

This is such a funny idea.

All you have to do is:

When you meet the woman, your second meeting, don't do it on your first one, tell her in a strange accent that you are going to be her knight and you shall protect her.

Through the whole meeting, open doors for her, pull chairs... be chivalrous with her.

She will be amazed and will find it very attractive.

It's such a funny idea, especially if the girl if fun too.

Call her by "mi lady" and try to tease her, you can even go further and compose a stupid poem for her on the spot.

• The third fun idea is use role play

This is one of my favorite fun ideas.

It's so simple and doesn't require any special places or situations.

All you need to do is play with her imaginations.

For example, you are sitting next to her and a policeman passes near you.

Tell her that she should throw all the drugs she has and that she is attracting trouble to you.

Tell her that you should both form a gang (or a drug cartel) and ask her to give it a name.

....

Elaborate the role play as much as possible.

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People who are older singles can be some of the best catches any single person can hope for. Not only are they already stable in their lives, they have a wealth of life lessons and information that they are willing to share with you so that you too can benefit from them.

Older singles are definitely one generation of singles that many a young woman looks up to and hopes to find a partner in. Older single men are usually already established in their careers and have substantial savings and investments that will keep them comfortable until, and after, they decide to retire. Because they have already spent a large part of their lives slaving and working hard for their money, many of them feel like this is the time that they need to have fun, find and partner, and enjoy life to the fullest before they get too old to enjoy it all. Many of these men at this stage are either single or have just gotten out of a bad marriage. Those who are out of a marriage are quite attractive to many ladies because they are usually good fathers and they know better how to best treat their future wives to keep them in a relationship longer than the first that they experienced.

Older singles are also far more cultivated and cultured in terms of their manners, worldliness, and their intellect. These traits will come out in the interests that they have and what they do on their spare time. Many of them will probably read more than they watch television, and some may prefer spending time at home improving their gardens rather than going out to bars and meeting women. You can expect an older singles to take you out to a lovely Broadway show or to an art gallery exhibit opening. There is a lot you can learn from them with all the knowledge they have accumulated over the years about art as an imitation of life. Their experiences and life lessons will amaze you, and you will find that holding meaningful conversations with them will not be difficult at all.

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Do you know how to show a girl you like her? Most guys are simply using old stupid method that really make the girl disgusted. Do you use some of these methods?

How to show a girl you like her? This can be very tricky to most guys.

The real problem is that nearly all men don't know how to show their liking to a girl.

They use old nasty tricks that will lead them only one way, out.

You have to know that what you saw on movies and TV isn't working at all with women.

It may be true that women will confess that they love these kinds of behaviors, but the truth is women don't appreciate them at all.

First of all, how not to show a girl you like her.

There are nearly unlimited resources on how to make yourself noticeable to a girl and show her that you like her, but the truth is that nearly none of these guides will ever work.

She may smile or "like" it, but in reality, she has lost all attraction for you.

The biggest mistake is showing her that you love her trough buying her gifts, flowers....

This is what TV and magazines have advised men to do for a very long time, I don't know why!

It doesn't work at all.

She will feel one thing if you did it, anger.

The second thing most guys will do is using dinner, candles, cards, poems...

This doesn't work either, all she will feel when you do it is nausea.

So, how to tell her you like her?

• First, you can tell a girl you like her by being a true man.

This is absolutely the best way to tell a woman that you like her.

What do I mean by being a man?

It's to be in charge.

To make the woman feel safe and being taking care of by you.

You have to lead a woman and decide for her if you want her to feel you truly like her.

A Woman can tell instantly that a man like her when he starts taking care of her and leading her.

You have to let her feel at ease when she is around you.

If you are in a restaurant, ask her what she would like to order and order for her.

If she is talking to you, listen to her and empathize with her.

• Another great way of showing a girl you like her is through the use of humor.

Have you ever seen a loving couple?

What's the man doing?

He is constantly making her laugh and teasing the woman.

No kisses or sweet words.

Laughter is the second biggest sign to a woman that she is liked.

Whenever you are making her laugh, she will be thinking at the back of her mind that you really like her and like being around her.

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Flirting with women is the first thing that will lead them to be attracted to you. If you don't know how to flirt, you are simply noise to them. Use these four wonderful tools to make her talk big all the time about you and feel lucky to having met you.

It's true, if you don't know how to flirt with a woman, you are just a stranger to her. You will be forgotten the minute you walk away.

This is why you have to learn how to flirt correctly with a woman; your success depends on it.

• The first tool that will help you with flirting with women is: take the lead

This is not a flirting tool, but if you start opening your mouth without being a leader to her, she will feel uneasiness with you and won't consider you worthy of her.

You have to know how to lead women and how to make them feel at ease when they are with you.

This is achieved through always taking care of them.

I don't mean catering them, what I'm saying is that you have to take responsibility of a woman, whenever there is a decision to make, it's up to you and not her.

Whenever you are talking to her, you direct the conversation.

Don't wait for her to do it; it's your natural role as a man.

• The second tool is: stay away from already used materials

This is one of the most essential advices I'm going to give you about flitting with women.

So many guys fall for this.

They like a girl, so they start thinking and asking about things to say to her.

Next thing they do is connect to the internet and copy some pickup lines or "funny" stories...

You have to know that you aren't the first guy she will be meeting and if you start telling her stuff that another man has told her, you will sound so fake and horrible to her.

Don't fall for this; anything of your own is a million times more interesting to a woman than something she has heard a dozen times.

• The third tool is: know how to make her laugh.

You can't attract a woman if you don't know how to make her laugh.

By laughing, I don't mean you doing the clown for her or telling her internet jokes.

What I'm referring too is "sexy laugh", in other words, laughter which will lead to attraction.

You do this by teasing women and being bold about it.

It may look hurtful, but women appreciate it enormously.

For example, if she looked at you, you can tell her that you don't like the "way" she is looking at you and that she just considers you a piece of meat with no feelings...

Be playful and bold at the same time and pay great deal of attention to your body language and facial expressions.

• The fourth tool is: the killer compliment.

This is absolutely the best way to make a woman think about you all the time.

Try to notice a really nice characteristic about her that she may not know about.

She is neat.
She is generous.
She is funny.
She helped an old woman immediately.

Then behave seriously, look her right in the eyes and tell her:

"There is something I want to tell you. I've noticed that you........, I'm such a lucky guy tonight, you are truly a....."

Don't overdo it!

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Do you want to have massive success with women? Then these tips on how to attract women will be very valuable to you.

Attracting women can be a fantastic experience.

It not only will help you deal and seduce women but will enrich your life too.

Many guys have changed their lives completely after they've learned how to attract women.

Use these tips to get massive success with women and to change your life for the better.

• Tip number one is learn to become a leader

If you are not a leader, you are a looser to women.

This is simple.

Women won't wait and let you convince them that you are a great match.

They will judge the book by its cover and they'll judge it quickly.

If you want to attract women, you have to become a leader.

Leading doesn't mean forcing people and yelling at them.

It's the gentle art of convincing people of a vision you have.

To be a leader around women, you have to take charge of your decisions and theirs too.

What do women want?

A guy who rely on them to take decisions and lead?

Or

A guy who will take the lead and guide them?

The correct answer is the second guy.

Women are naturally attracted to guys that can take charge and control of any situation.

They want to feel that their man is in control and they are safe with him.

If you let a woman take decisions for herself and for you, she won't feel attracted to you.

• Tip number two is be a great entertainer

Have you ever been to a dating website?

While reading women's profile, you will probably notice that all women wrote in the desired man' trait the word:

Fun

This is no coincidence; all women are looking for fun guys.

If you are boring, women won't find you very attractive.

The will simply ignore you and look for a more interesting guy.

This is why you need to become a great entertainer.

Before meeting a girl, try to know in advance what her tastes are and what subject does she love.

Try to learn to use some palmistry reading or coin magic.

This will sound like a trivial matter to attracting women; however, it's truly amazing how women go crazy about this stuff.

For us men, it's nothing serious, but for women, it's a great way to have fun with you and they'll be very entertained with you.

Entertaining a woman is the most memorable thing she would remember of you and she would even boast to her female friends about you and your great abilities.

• The third tip is acting indifferent

To attract women, you have to start acting indifferent.

This sounds very contradictory, but it's the truth.

Women aren't attracted to needy guys.

The more a man is self-confidence and indifferent about the outcome of a woman's decision, the more he will appear attractive and sexy to the woman.

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How to attract women tips are all over the internet. Are they true? Most are dumb assumptions. Have you ever done one of these mistakes with a woman before?

It can be tremendously painful to most guys.

Attracting women is truly a difficult task if you don't know what you are doing and the biggest problem is that most guys simply don't know what to do to attract women.

You see them in clubs stalking women or worse making a circle around them.

I've seen it before, it's pathetic.

Guys should really learn how to attract women.

These are some of the worst mistakes you could do with a woman that will lead you directly to being flushed away of her life:

• The first mistake is ask her to be your girlfriend

It's not true; most guys aren't looking for one night stands or to become the best "pick up artist".

What most guys are looking for when trying to meet women is to find that special someone whom they will love and respect.

The only problem with this idea is that nearly all guys don't know what to do to get into a long term relationship with that special girl, worse; they will jump on any occasion to make it "official" with her.

This is absolutely terrible when it comes to attraction and women fear these kinds of "official" statues that certain guys want to impose on them.

A woman will find you very insecure if you started asking her from the fifth date to become your girlfriend.

She will be scared to death of you and will do whatever possible to stay away from you.

• The second mistake is making future planes with her

This is a bit similar to the first mistake.

A guy will like a girl very much and will start having day dreams about them being together and doing certain activities.

So when he meets her, he will try to convince her to come with him to a party or the beach...

Trust me, women won't like it.

It may seem contradictory:

You want to meet her, yet you shouldn't make future plans with her?

It's true.

If you are interested in meeting her in the future, let her enjoy the date with you and when you said bye to her, go to your home and rest for some days, then take the phone and ask her to go out with you to wherever you want to go.

This way, you don't sound very needy and insecure and she will have missed you and missed the fun moments she has passed with you.

• The third mistake is ignoring yourself.

Just because you are seeing her doesn't mean that you have to forget about yourself, friends, family, needs....

This is a big mistake done by most guys.

She will set a time and he will accept immediately even if he was planning on doing other activities.

Why don't you tell her when she made plans for the future that you will be busy doing something interesting with a friend. You will appear as having a life and she will see you as an independent mature guy.

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Seducing women isn't that difficult. You only have to follow these great techniques and women will start day dreaming about you. It can seem very difficult, but in reality it's just another skill you will have to master. It's like using a bike for the first time, it's so tricky and complex, but with time it gets easier and fun. Seducing women is the same thing.

You need only time and these great techniques:

• Technique number one is you have to use chivalry to seduce women

What do I mean by chivalry? It's simply to open doors for women. To help them get out of the car. To pull chairs for them. To hold her hand while crossing the street. In other words, it's to be gallant with women. For a woman, a chivalrous man is a dream come true. What do little girls dream about? That they will grow up and meet prince charming. Well, this is the same dream for even big girls. Women fantasize day and night about meeting their prince charming, who is going to take the lead, defend her... This is the reason why women buy so many romance novels. They want to live this fantasy.

• The second technique is be a great story teller

If you want to impress a girl and make her chase you, you have to know how to tell great stories. Everything can become a true excitement to a woman if you know how to tell a story. This is one of the biggest excitements for women; they love to hear great story. Whatever the kind or the content, the way a story is told is the most important. It can be the most boring story, but if told in an exciting way, it can be a true gift for the woman. How do you tell a story? You have to focus mainly on the details, the colors and the characters actions and reactions. Bear in mind that women aren't excited as men by the action; they are excited by the feelings. So, focus all the time about describing the feelings and emotions to the women. She won't be impressed, she will be speechless.

• The third technique is be fun

Besides knowing how to tell a great story, you should also focus on becoming very fun. I don't mean funny, I wrote "fun". By fun, I mean the activities you do when you are with a woman. A fun person will take a woman to a park and tell her about its story, why it was build and the guys who build it. A not so fun person will take her to the park and eat. Always involve the woman in the activity you are doing with her. Try to give her pleasure by being with you.

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Seducing women can seem a tricky business and it is. However, if you know what truly attract women, it can be one of the easiest tasks to do. Find out how to get women magnetized by you immediately. It's not that difficult after all, seducing women can sound very hard and obscure to most men. The reason for this is that men tend to see women as a total mystery and think about them as difficult to predict and understand. In reality, it's not that difficult, you have only to know what to do to attract women.

• The first thing you need to do is use the secret code

By secret code, I don't mean some computer language or a "war" code. What I'm referring to is a secret technique that will make you irresistible to most women. This secret code will simply change your mindset and ideas to a much more confident and stronger one, which women love very much. This secret code is called: Affirmations. They are a great way to install new ideas and beliefs in your mind. This is fantastic when trying to seduce women. After all, the biggest attractive thing about you to a woman is your personality, and affirmations will help you improve it tremendously. These are my most cherished affirmations, use them every day after you wake up, they are great at transforming you into a an attractive man. "Women are naturally attracted to me" "I can attract any woman I want" "Women find me highly attractive" "I am a great guy" "I am the prize" "Women feel attracted to my confidence" You can invent some new affirmations for yourself, but these are the ones that helped me a lot and have shown the greatest results.

• The second thing you will have to do is learn how to walk

Learn how to walk? I don't mean like babies, what I really mean is that most guys walk like robots. They are insensitive about where they are and what surrounds them. This may seem pretty weak when trying to seduce women, but it's highly important. Women notice a great deal of information and details about you when you move. She can know whether you are a fun guy, take care of your body, your self-confidence... You should truly learn how to walk and move again. What's wrong with the way most guys walk and move? It doesn't reflect maturity and masculinity; it's fast and so mechanical.
When walking and moving, you must do it in a slow, confident way.

• The third issue you will have to handle is your details.

By details, I want to pay enormous attention to your finger nails and breathe. From my observations, these are one of the most neglected parts. Men simply don't care about whether they have bad breath or have dirty finger nails. For women, it can really make them nauseating. Always floss and clean yourself before going to meet a woman.

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How to get girls fast? Learning how to do it is such a brave decision to make. Most guys would never do it or would relay only on luck. Use these tips to attract a girl and keep her attracted to you.

It's such a great decision to learn how to get girls fast into your life. Most guys are clueless about what works and what doesn't and they will stay that way for a very long time.

This is primary due to the fact that they view it a matter of luck and destiny.

It's not.

If you don't get it handled, it won't happen for you.

You need to make sure to follow these tips in order for you to attract the girl and keep her attracted.

• Tip number one is be relaxed

Why am I giving you such a tip?

Because girls are great interpreters of gestures and behaviors and will associate it with different aspects of your personality.

Relaxation is essential to almost every field of life; this is especially true when it comes to getting girls.

If you are tense, she will feel it and will start playing on your moods, if she is the nasty type, or simply interpret you as lacking self-confidence and maturity.

This is how I learnt to relax:

Every morning, after waking up, lie on the floor, close your eyes and do a breathing exercise.

While inhaling, you count to eight and then stop while counting to four, then exhale while counting to eight.

Do this for only five minutes a day; it will be the greatest boost to your attraction powers.

• Tip number two is sop leaning

What do I mean by leaning?

What I'm referring to is to stop needing girls.

Most guys are lacking confidence and self-esteem when it comes to girls.

When they meet a great one, they will try to make her into the perfect girl and would please her in almost every imaginable way.

They will buy her flowers and gifts.

They will compliment her every time.

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This is what leaning on girls is all about.

Try to avoid all the above and be a real man to her.

Don't need her to make your life great, it's your job.

• Tip number three is start making decisions.

Women don't like undeceive guys.

If you are one, women wont and don't feel attracted to you.

This is the most hateful thing most girls will complain about when it comes to guys.

In the last three decades, many social trends have tried convincing people that women are like men and thus should be treated the same.

They aren't.

Women don't want to make decisions when it comes to you and her, that's your natural role.

Lead her and she will follow you.

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Do you know how to meet girls? If you can't meet girls, you have no dating life. Find out how to meet great girls and the places they will be available with no competition.

Meeting girls is the first step you have to do to find a great mate for you.

However, there is a very dangerous mistake that most guys will fall into.

They think that great girls can be met everywhere.

This is totally false.

All places aren't equal to the quality of girls there are in them.

The first thing you have to bear in mind is there are some places to stay away from.

The most notorious place to meet girls isn't really the best.

Many guys have told me that they can meet truly great girls in clubs.

I've tried and it was a great way to train my abilities with women, but the bad news is that most girls are either drunk or too stoned.

Clubs are a no when it comes to meeting girls, there is a great amount of competition, plus most girls wouldn't remember your name the next day.

Another bad place to meet girls is speed dating.

It may sound like a good idea, but from what I could observe, most women there are too desperate.

Now, where can you meet great girls?

• The first place I'm going to recommend is a friend's party.

This is one of my most favorite places to meet girls. Especially if your friend is a classy guy who has lots of great friends.

The great thing about it is that girls really go to a party having in mind to meet new guys, whereas is a club; they go to get free drinks and to have a fun time. Try to be there very early and ask your friend or another host to introduce you to hot girls.

You won't have to do any approaching, just chat a little and excuse yourself, then ask for their numbers.

Don't forget to be highly groomed and wear some great clothes.

• The second place is a yoga class

This will sound so gay to most guys, but you have to keep in mind that in a yoga class, the ratio is five guys to twenty five girls. Sport is a great stimulator, it gets women in a great mood, and the secretion of endorphin makes women really friendly and happy.

It can be expensive, but you will have a great cardiovascular training and great chances to meeting hot, pleasant girls.

• The third place is, it's not really a place: through a female friend

This is the best way to find truly amazing girls.

Simply ask a female friends to introduce you to some hot friends she has.

Chances are that her friends are looking for a great guy too and they have been bothering her.

Women love to be match makers, enjoy this and let her find you a wonderful girl.

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It is always advisable to use a professional matchmaker, not only because you are a hopeless case when it comes to love, but because it is the most practical way to find the girl of your dreams. The job of a matchmaker is obvious? it is to find people the best compatible matches that could possibly become their partners in life. Finding someone important in your life is one of the most vital achievements anyone can hope for, and waiting for it is not the answer. This is why a matchmaker can speed things up and find you your match faster than you can with your career and everyday chores in the way.

A professional matchmaker will make sure that she knows you first before she begins her search. She will ask you questions about yourself that will be revealing about your feelings hopes and dreams. This is nothing to be anxious about because they need to know this information for them to find someone who will be able to deal with you accordingly. Relationships go both ways, so it is not only about what you want in the other person, it is also about what the other person will want in you.

A matchmaker will also ask you about what kind of woman you would prefer to end up with. This is when you can give the details of what kind of woman interests you. You may say that important things to you are a good sense of humor, accomplishments in career, loves children and enjoys having pets, and other things that make up the overall personality of your dream girl. These are very important pieces of information to share so that the matchmaker can pinpoint people who have these characteristics and find out if you are a match that they also might consider for themselves.

With a professional matchmaker, it is all about revelations, sharing, and being open-minded. If you are none of these, then you may have to reconsider getting a matchmaker because you may not be ready for the process. A good practice would be to talk to a matchmaker for at least one session to find out if this is really how you want to find a partner, and then decide based on the outcome of your talk.

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Some people date for casual fun, others do it to seek out a potential life partner. Some people are hardwired for serious relationships while others are not. People often get the two confused, and if you have been dating someone for quite a while you're probably at the point where you may be wondering exactly where does the relationship stand and whether to proceed further. You also may be wondering if this person is dating you exclusively and if they aren't then why not?

There is a big difference between dating and courtship. Dating is very casual, while a courtship is much exclusive and intimate. On the contrary to popular belief, dating is not synonymous with an exclusive relationship. And it's always good to keep your options open, and allow the other person to do the same. When dating the common goal is to explore whether or not you share things in common with a person and if those things can take you to the next level of sharing a mutual connection. What is most important is that there is communication regarding expectations. If you and the other person have different views about where you want to go with things this can present a problem. If there has been no discussion about exclusivity then the other person is doing nothing wrong. It may be a tough pill to swallow but it's the truth. However, if it has been discussed that there is desire to take things further then enters a courtship.

When entering into a courtship, it usually means that the person you are seeing has zeroed in on you, and is actively pursuing you, and only you, towards possible matrimony. In this day and age, courtship is rarely explored or even talked about and its primarily because people are so quick to push things to the next level without actively investing the time into getting to know one another. This is why many people find themselves confused after a certain point, especially if there has already been sexual contact. It's one thing to have a no strings attached physical relationship, it's totally something different if you are truly seeking love or a potential life partner. Sex will only complicate things. This is why it's important to know the difference between the two and how it works.

In courtship, each person values and respects the other person. It involves two focused individuals willing to sacrifice and make time for each other to connect on a much more deeper level. Long talks together, public acknowledgment of one another, meeting each other's family and friends, buying gifts, writing letters, intimate dinners and other romantic gatherings are just a few examples of what makes up courtship. You are doing much more than just "hanging out" or "meeting up" on occasion. You are engaging in a form of intimacy that goes beyond the bedroom, thus minding receptiveness in each other's interests and long term relationship goals that are ultimately intended to lead to marriage.

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I notice a lot (even in my own early development), that when guys learn how to flirt with women, they want to be smooth and perfect in their communication, their body language and so on. No matter how counter intuitive this sounds, this will only lead to failure.

How to flirt with women - tip 1: Women don't want a man who tires to impress them. They just want a guy who is comfortable in the interaction and loves himself and thinks highly of himself, without being cocky. Trying to be perfect PREVENTS you from being attractive. Why? Because then the girl will notice that you are not comfortable with who you are (otherwise you wouldn't be trying). So, just say whatever is on your mind and don't try to find the perfect line or the perfect body language.

How to flirt with women - tip 2: Focus on having fun. Don't think too much, because this will overcloud your clarity and make you disconnect from the girl. It is more important to be present than thinking about what to say. What makes you attractive is connection and because then you are communicating with the girl on an emotional level. This is the only way to get fast results.

How to flirt with women - tip 3: Work on your self esteem and confidence. Loving yourself and believing in yourself is probably the most important element when you want to learn how to flirt with women. Being confident eliminates the need to pay too much attention to details and go through a lot of painful experiences.

All the above tips are very useful, however, you might ask yourself: how do I accomplish this? All the above result from having correct beliefs and this is what you should focus on when learning how to flirt with women. There are many tools in the world of psychology and personal development that can help you work on your beliefs. My favorite is EFT, but it is not the only one. Check out my other articles for more information.

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Overview

I love coaching guys who end up in the friend zone too often, because they really are usually great people with good hearts who genuinely care about others, and they're some of the most rewarding guys to see start getting results with women. Usually they just need a bit of a tweak in the way they're looking at things when it comes to the opposite sex.

First thing's first: this is an ezine article, so I'm going to make the assumption that you don't have much exposure to the mindset of approaching success with women as a skill, so let's start with that.

Success with women is like success with everything else you're good at right now - it's learned. Think of anything you're good at - sports, arts, a musical instrument, something you do with computers or a game you play with friends. Think back to when you first started doing it. Remember how awful you were? Even driving a car, riding a bike, walking on two feet - at some point in the distant past for you, those things were extremely challenging, daunting tasks. But you worked hard, persisted at them, and mastered them. Getting girls works exactly the same way as everything else in this world - the guys who work at it the hardest are the guys who get the best at it.

Neither I nor any of the men I've taught were born with the ability to get girls - we learned it, through hard work, sweat, perseverance, and dogged persistence. Can't say it was exactly easy, but, well - little in life worth having is, and women are, in my opinion, something worth having, and something worth working for.

More Than a Friend

Let's give you some basics on what women are looking for with men that ought to give you a bit to think about and start focusing on developing in yourself. These are the qualities that the men women go for - both the jerks, and the very suave, charming guys with good hearts, like you aim to be (hopefully you don't want to be a jerk!) - possess:

• Challenge. Just like no guy wants a girl who's too "easy to get", nor does a girl want a guy who's too easy to get, either. Men who are a little challenging are attractive to women. If a girl asks two guys if they like her, the guy who answers, "I sure do!" with eagerness is going to seem a lot less appealing than the guy who answers, "Maybe..." with a sly smile and a mysterious tone. A big part of being successful with women is finding the right balance, and this is the same - you don't want to be so much of a challenge that a girl gives up, but you also don't want to be so easy that she loses interest. Give her a little light teasing, and don't be afraid to challenge a bit. She won't run away; in fact, she's much more likely to run after you than away from you.


• Leadership. One of the qualities women respond very well to in men that most guys who end up frequently in the friend zone haven't developed is leadership. For meeting and succeeding with girls, we'll define leadership as giving commands to women and having them followed, as well as inspiring women to do more for you. Most nice guys give much, but don't ask for anything in return. Both jerks and confident guys with good hearts, though, tend to demand at least as much from women as they give in return. If this is uncharted territory for you, start out with small commands, and build up. Telling women things like, "Sit with me," or, "Tell me a little about your day," are some easy ways to start building leadership with women. You can still do for girls, but make sure they're doing at least as much for you too. If they ask you to help with something, ask them to cook you a meal or bring you some food.


• Risqué. Another big difference between friendly guys and sexy guys is edge. Friendly guys tend to shy away from anything dangerous, sexual, or edgy, because they're afraid of scaring women off. And in fact, you will scare some women off as you make yourself a little edgier - but the women who stay are far more likely to be a lot warmer to and interested in you than the women who hang around being friends with nice guys. Gradually ramp up the edge factor in your dealings with women. Nice guys who are just friends are safe and harmless. Jerks, bad boys, and suave James Bond types are not. Add a little edge to your personality - study how sexy men use nonverbal communication (I recommend Sean Connery's and Pierce Brosnan's James Bond characters, and Ryan Reynolds in Van Wilder for this), and add some implied sexual humor without being overly obvious (again, check out Ryan Reynolds in Van Wilder - he's great at flying just under the radar with it).


• Urgency. Men who get girls also have one other distinguishing characteristic - they move fast, and they work to get women moving around with them, going home with them, and in bed with them. Men who move too slow and wait around get slotted firmly into "just a friend" territory. If you want to stay out of the friend zone, you absolutely, positively, must invite girls to move around with you, sit with you, go out with you, go home with you. And you must make a move, sooner or later (the sooner the better). Women tend to have only a certain window of time they're open and available to any one man, and if the man takes too long, that window closes and is now shut to him. If you've ever had a girl who seemed to really like you, but you didn't do anything and her interest in you disappeared, you've experienced what I'm talking about. Keep that in mind the next time you're about to hesitate - fortune really does favor the bold, particularly with women.


• Persistence. Sister to urgency, persistence is another vital trait of men who do well with women. It's both a sign of confidence and a sign to a girl that you really do like her and aren't just wasting her time, and it's just generally an important quality for succeeding and getting the things you want in life in general. Have you ever had someone ask you to do something, and you said, "No, no, no... I'll just stay here," but you really wanted them, in fact, to ask you a few more times and just get you to go with them? Women, believe it or not, do this a lot; many girls think that if they resist a little bit, it makes them look much better and far more feminine. Unfortunately, a lot of guys don't realize this, and give up after one "no", which is tragic; the girl is often left sitting there thinking, "What? I thought he was going to ask me again... I didn't really mean I didn't want to go!" You may have even had this happen before - you might've asked a girl to go somewhere with you, perhaps, and she said, "No, I can't, I'm just too tired," and you gave up, but had you persisted and asked a few more times, she would have said yes and accompanied you and the two of you might have ended up together or become boyfriend-girlfriend or who knows. Most of the women you will get together with will say "no" the first time you ask them to do something - you must be at least a little persistent. Asking once is rarely enough!

If you start working to possess these qualities, I guarantee you will begin having less women slotting you into the friend zone, and more women slotting you into the "potential boyfriend / lover" zone. These are the qualities of a strong, attractive man, and they're qualities that are not natural, but rather developed. Men who have them can lose them, following a string of bad luck; and men who don't have them can gain them, following a little hard work and an idea of where they want to get to.

Homework

If you've come this far, the next step is to start making some changes. So let's get to it! Here's a few important items I'd like to see you start off with:

• Start being a challenge. You can begin with a few simple ways of challenging women more, like asking questions in response to their questions (e.g., a girl asks you how old you are, and you ask back, "What do you think? Take a guess") or using a little light teasing (e.g., a girl tells you she's studying to be a doctor, and you can say something silly like, "I guess you must like cutting people"). Don't overdo the teasing though, or she can start feeling like you don't take her seriously. Seek to find balance between giving her a little bit of a hard time, and showing genuine interest in her.


• Start giving some simple commands. Get girls moving around with you. Have them come sit with you to talk. Ask them for little things like a sip from their drink or to borrow their pen. Take anything you might normally ask, and turn it into a command; instead of saying, "Can I get your number?" say, "Here, let me grab your number."

Get these down and you'll be well on your way to being a suave, charming guy women have a hard time resisting - and before you know it, the phrase "just a friend" will be something you only remember with a slight smile and a hint of a laugh....

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