Asking a woman out can be very intimidating. In this article, you are going to find out how to ask women out on a date in a totally different way. You are going to look great so as to maximize your chances with them and make them say yes even before you ask them.

Women pay a great deal of attention to your personality and character.

However, this doesn't mean that they will neglect other essential parts such as your appearance and behaviors.

They are essential to a woman's evaluation of you.

It's highly important for you to look the best you can in order for you to maximize your chances of her accepting to go on a date with you.

What would you choose?

A rotten apple or a great looking one?

Of course the great looking.

This is the same with women, they will prefer a man who has average looks but dress and has a great appearance than a great looking guy but has a filthy appearance.

1. The first thing you should focus on is your body odors.

This is such a neglected part when men are grooming themselves. Isn't taking a shower and using the usual deodorant enough? The simple answer is no, it's not enough. Why?

Because women have a highly developed sense of smell and they are going to scan you from head to toes when you walk or stand next to them.

They will pay close attention to the way you smell!

This is why you need to smell great all the time. Women have confessed to me that they will find a guy charming and handsome just by the fragrance he is using. You should stop from using deodorants and shifts to colognes. They are much more mature and attractive to women.

2. The second thing you need to pay attention to is your details

By details, I mean anything that's appearing to women. It can be your hair, nails, eye brows, shoes, socks.... Women will examine you accurately and if they find the smallest defect, they will punish you heavily.

What disgust women?

Here is the least from the least disgusting the most disgusting:

1 bad hair cut
2 spots on your shirt or clothes
3 hair hanging from your nose or/and ears
4 dirty finger nails
5 ugly or dirty shoes

Shoes are so important; never leave your home without polishing them and taking good care of them.

3. The third thing you should look after to look great is your insecurities.

Some men are blessed with gorgeous bodies, magnificent hair...Others on the other hands weren't so lucky; they got baldness, big bellies...These are for most guys insecurities that they will try to hide at any cost.

They will wear fake hair, do some surgery...This is fine, however when dealing with women, hiding them becomes a danger to your success.

She will see it as a sign of weakness and self-doubt. Don't be ashamed of your body, instead, show it and she will perceive you as a confident guy.

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Professional matchmaking services are a wealth of information about how people can best maximize their dates where to have them to get the best romance out of the date possible. Matchmaking services are also a wealth of information on advice that couples can follow to enhance their relationships with one another and how to make love work. Some of the best first date venue advice comes from renowned professional matchmaking sites that make it their business to make relationships thrive and flourish.

A great fist date venue is always the movies. Pick a movie that you know you will both enjoy, so you will have to do a little research on your own to find out what kind of movies she likes to watch. You might want to choose a horror flick so that she can have you clinging to you throughout the whole movie. However, if you know she can?t stand horror movies, then don?t pick it; otherwise she may end up not watching at all! The movies are the best place to share food, drinks, and snacks. It is also a perfect place where you can try to hold her hand for the first time.

Another popular first date venue is a walk in the park. Pick a day where it is not too crowded and pick a spot where you can go back to so that you can share a picnic lunch. The best part about taking a stroll in the park with a significant other is that you will be able to watch other people going about their business which makes for great topics of conversation. Aside from talking about the weather, prepare a picnic lunch that will surely have her impressed which should include a light wine, cheese, fruits, and some pastries.

First dates should be simple, but romantic. Take your date to a concert in the park. Make sure it is music that you will both enjoy. Again, prepare a picnic dinner complete with wine and some delicious snacks. You can even spend the rest of the evening lying on your picnic blanket identifying constellations together while talking about life.

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How to ask a woman out on a date can be very frightening to most guys, especially if they have been rejected before. These are the most lethal mistakes you have made or you will be making for her to say no. avoid them at any cost.

These mistakes are horrible and women will be merciless when you do them. There is nothing more revealing to women about your personality and character than making one or all of these mistakes.

The first mistake is asking her the wrong way.

There is a right way to ask a woman out and unfortunately, there are also thousands of incorrect ways to ask a woman out. The most abnormal way of asking a woman out is:

Approaching her and asking her something like this:

"Excuse me, are you free Saturday evening?"

Yes, this is the most terrible way to ask her out. By asking her this question, she will think that you don't want to take risks with her; you are making sure she is free first and the most terrible thing is that no woman on this earth would answer you with:

"Yes (no one wants to date me), I'm free on Saturday"

This will never happen. She wouldn't want to appear as having no life. Instead, you should ask her this way:

"Excuse me; I would like to take you out Saturday evening if you aren't busy of course."

This is a direct efficient way. She will try to give your reasons that she has something to do, it's normal, just tell her to cancel it and to come with you because you are more fun.

The second mistake is trying to convince her or finding the reason why she refused

Many women will say to your date proposition: NO

They are either busy, don't find you attractive, or are playing hard to get. This is fine. What's not so fine is you standing next to her and trying to convince her to go out with you.

"You won't regret it; I'll take you to a good restaurant"

"Just give me a chance"

....

Or they will try to know why she refused:

"It's because I'm fat, right?"

"Why?"

"Please, I want to know why you don't want..."

Believe me; by doing this, you've killed all your chances with her. The right way would be to tease her when she tells you no. "I understand, you find me too attractive, it's normal"

"It's fine, I'm such a great guy and people will keep admiring me and ignoring you when we will be walking together." Teasing her is the best thing you can do. Then you can ask her again, but using daring humor.

"OK, I'm going to give you another chance, it's your lucky day and I'm such a generous guy, I don't want you to miss all the fun and pleasure that I'll bring you when you'll go out with me"

Trust me; few women will refuse at this stage. You have to keep your word and let your date be fun and amusing to her.

The third mistake is asking her to lead

You've convinced her to go out with you.

Your next move would be: Asking her to choose a place and time. She will think of you as the most immature and needy guy on earth.

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This question has been asked since the dawn of the Neanderthals with no agreeable conclusion. But like our ancient ancestors, I believe that I have discovered the fire that you need to be the hottest, most desirable creature on the planet. And unlike history, it will not take years of evolution to get you to this level. Simply follow my five favorite fire hot moves and you will be elevated to Greek Goddess status over night.

1. Confidence Is Queen: Every single man alive will walk through a desert, with no water, no food, and no rescue in sight for a woman who is confident. Men are powerful creatures who demand an equal partner in the journey of life and in order to be truly happy they need a strong confident woman by their side. If you want men to be all over you like they would a tool sale at Sears, then you need to live with confidence in everything that you do. Believe in yourself, who you are, what you do, how you carry yourself; all of this must be done with absolute confidence. And if you are lacking this key element, you must figure out why, get over it, and bring on the new you.

2. Have Purpose In Life: Ladies it's essential that you have a purpose in life beyond that of just living. What I mean is, you have to have a game plan for your future, a goal, something that you want to become or accomplish. Men flock to women with purpose like a stray goose to a gaggle. One cannot just want a man to come into their life, scoop them up, put them into a fairytale castle and take care of them forever. Men hate this. They want a woman who can stand on her own two feet, who has determination to succeed and who has a plan to have a bright and rich future with or with out a man on her arm. Life is great when you have that perfect partner, but never go through life thinking that is the only way life can be great. You must be able to prevail on your own with a solid plan and that will draw men to you like moths to a flame.

3. Let Your Inner Glow, Flow: True beauty comes from within and although men are visual creatures, men are also drawn to the inner glow of a real woman. They might not be able to see it visually, but if you posses a true sense of who you are and are not afraid to let it show, even the blindest of men will be able to see this. What ever beauty you hold inside your heart, you must be able to share that with those around you in a way that makes people feel better about themselves, just by being in your presence. So many people now a days have something to hide or scars that cut so deep they are not able to showcase their true being. If you can over come this and be true to who you are, show case it, live and love it, men will be tripping over themselves just to be in your presence. A woman who can make a man the best man he can be just by being who she is a rare and amazing creature and is a woman who will have endless opportunities for love.

4. Sexuality is Sexy: It is not the 1900's so don't act like it is! We live in a society where being sexy is extremely acceptable. In fact, it is preferred. Women by nature are gorgeous, delightful, heavenly works of art and you would never think of hiding a work of art under drab clothes, would you? So why not highlight the sensual creature you are by letting men see the sexy side you posses. Free yourself from being reserved and let your inner sexual goddess show through. Start with how you dress, never be afraid to let the world see the beauty of your curves. Dressing sexy is all about feeling powerful in what you put on your body, if it makes you feel great then you will have sensual scents oozing from your inner being that every man in the room will notice. And once men pick up on this, it is time for phase two, the art of the sensual touch. Being sexy is not just about how you look, it also about how you touch. A shake of the hand can tell a man a lot about the kind of woman you are and if your touch is openly confident and sexy it will make a man buckle at the knees. Let your essence of woman hood flow out your finger tips into the palms of his hands, let him feel the sexy goddess that is the core of who you are, deliver your touch with intent and unwavering ability to let this man know you are proud to be a woman who is beautiful and sensual. Men will fall to pieces like a cheap piece of furniture if you deliver the sexiness you have buried inside your body.

5. Laughter Lights Him Up: By nature everyone loves to laugh. Therefore, it stands to reason that if you are a woman who can enjoy the gift of laughter you will bring out the happiness in any man who passes by your porch. The ability to let go of the moment and release the joy of laughter is so elevating and so powerful it can make even the most drab of moods uplifted. Everyone seeks to be happy in life and if you are the kind of woman who can draw out the laughter and good times in a person, in essence you are making their life happy and they will defiantly be coming back for more. Why do you think a good comedian always has sold out shows? It's because it feels good to laugh and it makes the soul happy. Never forget that laughter is the best medicine, and I truly believe this. A couple that can laugh together, stays together.

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You are probably sold to the fact that you need a matchmaker, but are wondering where a professional matchmaker can be found. Luckily, with the development of technology and communications, you may not even have to leave your own house to have access to the matchmaker of your choice. They will advertise themselves in different ways, which makes it easier for clients like you to find the right one to hire.

One way by which they advertise their services is through magazines and newspapers. Although this may be an expensive form of advertising, you may find the more successful matchmakers may be in these pages because their good business has allowed them to afford such an expensive medium. They often have classified advertisements where they will provide contact numbers and maybe even a short list of their specialties and services that they have in store for clients. Another way is through websites. This is becoming a far more popular medium than anything else because websites are easier to set up and are cheaper to maintain as well. A website for a professional matchmaker should be complete to make it a legitimate one. Make sure there are contact numbers where you can reach the matchmaker anytime, and not just email addresses and chats. A customer service number should be available as well, just in case you come across any problems. Make sure you read through terms and conditions before taking on services that you will be sure will help you in your relationship.

Word-of-mouth is yet another way by which you can find the perfect professional matchmaker for your relationship needs. Learn from family and friends if they have used matchmakers in the past. You may be able to get a good referral for a matchmaker who is professional and has a high success rate on top of that. If your friends and family were good customers, then you may even get a discount that you need as well! This method of finding a matchmaker is incredibly useful because you will be able to find someone whom most of your friends and family trust to help you in your particular situation.

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There is a good professional matchmaker out there for anyone who is looking, all one has to do is to be able to spot the best one that will help them find the partner of their dreams. Matchmakers who are serious about their work and in making their customers happy usually make them and their businesses stand out from the rest. The following are just a few characteristics you should look for in a matchmaker that is professional and who will bring your love life the success it needs.

First and foremost, it is important for you to find out about the credentials of the matchmaker. If you are working with an individual operating on freelance basis, you may want to ask him or her directly about the experience they have had in matchmaking. Ask for references of clients that have found success in their love lives using this particular matchmaker. This way, you can get a complete testimonial from a client who can honestly tell you what it was like to work with the professional matchmaker.

Find out how the matchmaker advertises him or herself. This may take on the form of a website or even just a calling card. The most important thing is that you are able to find out the contact numbers that will allow you to reach him or her whenever you need them. If they are always accessible to their clients, you will find that they are much better matchmakers to work with. Matchmakers that keep lines of communications open between themselves and their clients can always be trusted to be trying to help their customers as much as they can. Last, find out from family and friends if this particular professional matchmaker is the kind of person you should be working with. By finding out from sources that you know are reliable, you will be able to make a better decision as to whether to hire the matchmaker for your relationship needs. Remember, it is your love life on the line, so it is best that you make sure that your research is complete so that you can make a well-informed decision in the end.

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These seduction techniques are truly amazing. Women will be unable to resist you and will feel completely seduced and attracted if you use these fun ideas.

What's attractive to a woman?

Money, cars, jewelry, looks...?

No.

Women love most of all humor and fun in a man.

You can be the richest, most handsome person on earth, yet if you are boring, a woman will do either one of these two things:

She will dump you for another fun guy

Or

Cheat with another fun guy

Women can't live without having fun in their lives.

This is by the way the first trait women are looking for in men.

Make it your priority to develop it and making yourself fun to women.

Use these three fun ideas to seduce women and make them go nuts for you.

• Idea number one is take her to a strange place

Where do most guys take women these days?

Restaurants, clubs, movie, park...

These places are great, if you are married, but when dating, women will expect you to take them to these places, because after all most guys do it and will hate you when you do it.

You have to be totally unpredictable with women, especially when choosing a place to take them.

The greatest places to take women to are:

The zoo.

Most guys don't even think about it, however, it's a fantastic place full of conversation opportunities and fun ideas.

An ethnic restaurant.

It's an Amazing place to take a woman to, choose for her a great dish and let her experience new tastes with you.

An antique shop.

One of my most favorite places. there are so many fun ideas and conversation openers.

• Idea number two is act like a medieval knight

This is such a funny idea.

All you have to do is:

When you meet the woman, your second meeting, don't do it on your first one, tell her in a strange accent that you are going to be her knight and you shall protect her.

Through the whole meeting, open doors for her, pull chairs... be chivalrous with her.

She will be amazed and will find it very attractive.

It's such a funny idea, especially if the girl if fun too.

Call her by "mi lady" and try to tease her, you can even go further and compose a stupid poem for her on the spot.

• The third fun idea is use role play

This is one of my favorite fun ideas.

It's so simple and doesn't require any special places or situations.

All you need to do is play with her imaginations.

For example, you are sitting next to her and a policeman passes near you.

Tell her that she should throw all the drugs she has and that she is attracting trouble to you.

Tell her that you should both form a gang (or a drug cartel) and ask her to give it a name.

....

Elaborate the role play as much as possible.

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People who are older singles can be some of the best catches any single person can hope for. Not only are they already stable in their lives, they have a wealth of life lessons and information that they are willing to share with you so that you too can benefit from them.

Older singles are definitely one generation of singles that many a young woman looks up to and hopes to find a partner in. Older single men are usually already established in their careers and have substantial savings and investments that will keep them comfortable until, and after, they decide to retire. Because they have already spent a large part of their lives slaving and working hard for their money, many of them feel like this is the time that they need to have fun, find and partner, and enjoy life to the fullest before they get too old to enjoy it all. Many of these men at this stage are either single or have just gotten out of a bad marriage. Those who are out of a marriage are quite attractive to many ladies because they are usually good fathers and they know better how to best treat their future wives to keep them in a relationship longer than the first that they experienced.

Older singles are also far more cultivated and cultured in terms of their manners, worldliness, and their intellect. These traits will come out in the interests that they have and what they do on their spare time. Many of them will probably read more than they watch television, and some may prefer spending time at home improving their gardens rather than going out to bars and meeting women. You can expect an older singles to take you out to a lovely Broadway show or to an art gallery exhibit opening. There is a lot you can learn from them with all the knowledge they have accumulated over the years about art as an imitation of life. Their experiences and life lessons will amaze you, and you will find that holding meaningful conversations with them will not be difficult at all.

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Do you know how to show a girl you like her? Most guys are simply using old stupid method that really make the girl disgusted. Do you use some of these methods?

How to show a girl you like her? This can be very tricky to most guys.

The real problem is that nearly all men don't know how to show their liking to a girl.

They use old nasty tricks that will lead them only one way, out.

You have to know that what you saw on movies and TV isn't working at all with women.

It may be true that women will confess that they love these kinds of behaviors, but the truth is women don't appreciate them at all.

First of all, how not to show a girl you like her.

There are nearly unlimited resources on how to make yourself noticeable to a girl and show her that you like her, but the truth is that nearly none of these guides will ever work.

She may smile or "like" it, but in reality, she has lost all attraction for you.

The biggest mistake is showing her that you love her trough buying her gifts, flowers....

This is what TV and magazines have advised men to do for a very long time, I don't know why!

It doesn't work at all.

She will feel one thing if you did it, anger.

The second thing most guys will do is using dinner, candles, cards, poems...

This doesn't work either, all she will feel when you do it is nausea.

So, how to tell her you like her?

• First, you can tell a girl you like her by being a true man.

This is absolutely the best way to tell a woman that you like her.

What do I mean by being a man?

It's to be in charge.

To make the woman feel safe and being taking care of by you.

You have to lead a woman and decide for her if you want her to feel you truly like her.

A Woman can tell instantly that a man like her when he starts taking care of her and leading her.

You have to let her feel at ease when she is around you.

If you are in a restaurant, ask her what she would like to order and order for her.

If she is talking to you, listen to her and empathize with her.

• Another great way of showing a girl you like her is through the use of humor.

Have you ever seen a loving couple?

What's the man doing?

He is constantly making her laugh and teasing the woman.

No kisses or sweet words.

Laughter is the second biggest sign to a woman that she is liked.

Whenever you are making her laugh, she will be thinking at the back of her mind that you really like her and like being around her.

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Flirting with women is the first thing that will lead them to be attracted to you. If you don't know how to flirt, you are simply noise to them. Use these four wonderful tools to make her talk big all the time about you and feel lucky to having met you.

It's true, if you don't know how to flirt with a woman, you are just a stranger to her. You will be forgotten the minute you walk away.

This is why you have to learn how to flirt correctly with a woman; your success depends on it.

• The first tool that will help you with flirting with women is: take the lead

This is not a flirting tool, but if you start opening your mouth without being a leader to her, she will feel uneasiness with you and won't consider you worthy of her.

You have to know how to lead women and how to make them feel at ease when they are with you.

This is achieved through always taking care of them.

I don't mean catering them, what I'm saying is that you have to take responsibility of a woman, whenever there is a decision to make, it's up to you and not her.

Whenever you are talking to her, you direct the conversation.

Don't wait for her to do it; it's your natural role as a man.

• The second tool is: stay away from already used materials

This is one of the most essential advices I'm going to give you about flitting with women.

So many guys fall for this.

They like a girl, so they start thinking and asking about things to say to her.

Next thing they do is connect to the internet and copy some pickup lines or "funny" stories...

You have to know that you aren't the first guy she will be meeting and if you start telling her stuff that another man has told her, you will sound so fake and horrible to her.

Don't fall for this; anything of your own is a million times more interesting to a woman than something she has heard a dozen times.

• The third tool is: know how to make her laugh.

You can't attract a woman if you don't know how to make her laugh.

By laughing, I don't mean you doing the clown for her or telling her internet jokes.

What I'm referring too is "sexy laugh", in other words, laughter which will lead to attraction.

You do this by teasing women and being bold about it.

It may look hurtful, but women appreciate it enormously.

For example, if she looked at you, you can tell her that you don't like the "way" she is looking at you and that she just considers you a piece of meat with no feelings...

Be playful and bold at the same time and pay great deal of attention to your body language and facial expressions.

• The fourth tool is: the killer compliment.

This is absolutely the best way to make a woman think about you all the time.

Try to notice a really nice characteristic about her that she may not know about.

She is neat.
She is generous.
She is funny.
She helped an old woman immediately.

Then behave seriously, look her right in the eyes and tell her:

"There is something I want to tell you. I've noticed that you........, I'm such a lucky guy tonight, you are truly a....."

Don't overdo it!

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