What Makes A Man Hot?

This question has been asked since the dawn of the Neanderthals with no agreeable conclusion. But like our ancient ancestors, I believe that I have discovered the fire that you need to be the hottest, most desirable creature on the planet. And unlike history, it will not take years of evolution to get you to this level. Simply follow my five favorite fire hot moves and you will be elevated to Greek Goddess status over night.

1. Confidence Is Queen: Every single man alive will walk through a desert, with no water, no food, and no rescue in sight for a woman who is confident. Men are powerful creatures who demand an equal partner in the journey of life and in order to be truly happy they need a strong confident woman by their side. If you want men to be all over you like they would a tool sale at Sears, then you need to live with confidence in everything that you do. Believe in yourself, who you are, what you do, how you carry yourself; all of this must be done with absolute confidence. And if you are lacking this key element, you must figure out why, get over it, and bring on the new you.

2. Have Purpose In Life: Ladies it's essential that you have a purpose in life beyond that of just living. What I mean is, you have to have a game plan for your future, a goal, something that you want to become or accomplish. Men flock to women with purpose like a stray goose to a gaggle. One cannot just want a man to come into their life, scoop them up, put them into a fairytale castle and take care of them forever. Men hate this. They want a woman who can stand on her own two feet, who has determination to succeed and who has a plan to have a bright and rich future with or with out a man on her arm. Life is great when you have that perfect partner, but never go through life thinking that is the only way life can be great. You must be able to prevail on your own with a solid plan and that will draw men to you like moths to a flame.

3. Let Your Inner Glow, Flow: True beauty comes from within and although men are visual creatures, men are also drawn to the inner glow of a real woman. They might not be able to see it visually, but if you posses a true sense of who you are and are not afraid to let it show, even the blindest of men will be able to see this. What ever beauty you hold inside your heart, you must be able to share that with those around you in a way that makes people feel better about themselves, just by being in your presence. So many people now a days have something to hide or scars that cut so deep they are not able to showcase their true being. If you can over come this and be true to who you are, show case it, live and love it, men will be tripping over themselves just to be in your presence. A woman who can make a man the best man he can be just by being who she is a rare and amazing creature and is a woman who will have endless opportunities for love.

4. Sexuality is Sexy: It is not the 1900's so don't act like it is! We live in a society where being sexy is extremely acceptable. In fact, it is preferred. Women by nature are gorgeous, delightful, heavenly works of art and you would never think of hiding a work of art under drab clothes, would you? So why not highlight the sensual creature you are by letting men see the sexy side you posses. Free yourself from being reserved and let your inner sexual goddess show through. Start with how you dress, never be afraid to let the world see the beauty of your curves. Dressing sexy is all about feeling powerful in what you put on your body, if it makes you feel great then you will have sensual scents oozing from your inner being that every man in the room will notice. And once men pick up on this, it is time for phase two, the art of the sensual touch. Being sexy is not just about how you look, it also about how you touch. A shake of the hand can tell a man a lot about the kind of woman you are and if your touch is openly confident and sexy it will make a man buckle at the knees. Let your essence of woman hood flow out your finger tips into the palms of his hands, let him feel the sexy goddess that is the core of who you are, deliver your touch with intent and unwavering ability to let this man know you are proud to be a woman who is beautiful and sensual. Men will fall to pieces like a cheap piece of furniture if you deliver the sexiness you have buried inside your body.

5. Laughter Lights Him Up: By nature everyone loves to laugh. Therefore, it stands to reason that if you are a woman who can enjoy the gift of laughter you will bring out the happiness in any man who passes by your porch. The ability to let go of the moment and release the joy of laughter is so elevating and so powerful it can make even the most drab of moods uplifted. Everyone seeks to be happy in life and if you are the kind of woman who can draw out the laughter and good times in a person, in essence you are making their life happy and they will defiantly be coming back for more. Why do you think a good comedian always has sold out shows? It's because it feels good to laugh and it makes the soul happy. Never forget that laughter is the best medicine, and I truly believe this. A couple that can laugh together, stays together.