How Flirt With Women - 3 Tips and How to Use Them ?

I notice a lot (even in my own early development), that when guys learn how to flirt with women, they want to be smooth and perfect in their communication, their body language and so on. No matter how counter intuitive this sounds, this will only lead to failure.

How to flirt with women - tip 1: Women don't want a man who tires to impress them. They just want a guy who is comfortable in the interaction and loves himself and thinks highly of himself, without being cocky. Trying to be perfect PREVENTS you from being attractive. Why? Because then the girl will notice that you are not comfortable with who you are (otherwise you wouldn't be trying). So, just say whatever is on your mind and don't try to find the perfect line or the perfect body language.

How to flirt with women - tip 2: Focus on having fun. Don't think too much, because this will overcloud your clarity and make you disconnect from the girl. It is more important to be present than thinking about what to say. What makes you attractive is connection and because then you are communicating with the girl on an emotional level. This is the only way to get fast results.

How to flirt with women - tip 3: Work on your self esteem and confidence. Loving yourself and believing in yourself is probably the most important element when you want to learn how to flirt with women. Being confident eliminates the need to pay too much attention to details and go through a lot of painful experiences.

All the above tips are very useful, however, you might ask yourself: how do I accomplish this? All the above result from having correct beliefs and this is what you should focus on when learning how to flirt with women. There are many tools in the world of psychology and personal development that can help you work on your beliefs. My favorite is EFT, but it is not the only one. Check out my other articles for more information.