Let Him Know You're Interested - Without Making a Fool of Yourself

How can you let your crush know you're interested without embarrassing yourself? Why do some guys not pick up the obvious signs you've carefully laid before them? Have you ever tried to let a guy know of your crush, but you were too shy to follow through? Here are three creative ways that other girls have let a guy know they're interested - each one ended up with the man of their dreams!

1. Send him flowers, balloons, or candy. This method works great because you don't have to see him in person. It is a bold move, but he will be flattered that you noticed him and took the effort. The key here is to only do it once and let him call you to thank you. Just make sure to put your number on the card and be patient. It may take him a couple of days to get over the shock.

2. Use song lyrics. Write out the words of a popular song that describes how you are feeling (or want to be feeling) about your crush. Sign your name, but either mail it or drop it off when he's not home. He will know you're interested. This type of boldness can be attractive; a girl who goes after what she wants appears very self-confident and pleasing to any guy.

3. Wink at him from across a room. Then, while he's trying to figure out if that is indeed what just happened or if it was his imagination, send a drink his way...your treat. Not only will he appreciate the free drink, he will be intrigued with the mystery woman who sent it.

Each of the above items showcases confidence and kindness, both of which are key components to an embarrassment-free situation. Just make sure you are really into the guy you choose to bless with these actions. If he responds and you blow him off after five minutes, your reputation as a flirt will grow and it will be harder to convince any future guy that you are indeed pursuing him.

After trying one or more of the above ideas, sit back and wait for his response. If it isn't what you expected, or if it never happens, don't give up. That was just one man and there are millions of other guys in the world who would be lucky to have you. There is probably at least one guy waiting right now for you to let him know you're interested; now he can do the same for you!