Make a Man Want You - A Three Step Process

How can you make a man want you and change your current one-sided relationship? Are you tired of always chasing a guy and never getting a response? Is there a way to turn the tables and have a guy chase you? If you can diligently follow these three basic steps - you can make a man want you.

1. First, put on the charm. Shower your guy of interest with words of love, homemade treats, and plenty of affection. For now, don't focus on his response, you just want him to feel lots of attention and flattery from you. This period of time should last at least two or three weeks.

Try to pick a variety of different ways to show him affection, because he might prefer one method over another. You want to make sure that you hit every option available so he feels your attention in great measure.

2. Pull back and focus your time and energy into a different activity. When you see your guy, be polite and friendly; but don't pay him special attention or flattery of any kind. Definitely don't act like anything is wrong or like you are mad. That will only make him think you are full of drama and men hate drama. You want to make a man want you, not make him want to run away from you.

3. He will probably approach you at some point, either by phone or in person, to find out what is going on. At this point, you can matter-of-factly explain that you thought things were too one-sided and that you really didn't want to bother him since he wasn't interested. Again, be kind and smile. If you can politely excuse yourself from the conversation at that point, it will be even better.

Your guy will crave the attention you had been previously paying to him. He may not have acted during the time like he was enjoying it, but deep down he was having feelings of confidence and strength. These feelings are a rush to a guy's heart.

Once the encouragement is missing that was previously such a presence in his life - he will be coming after you for more attention as before. At that point, you have accomplished your goal. You have made a man want you, and the two of you can start on your new and exciting relationship.